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Batcat: a fairytale on vaginismus
Just like the special cat in this story, many women have something different about themselves but live ashamed and hidden because they feel like freaks, just like a cat with wings.
Instead of flying with them, many women won't allow themselves to show their wings or won't be allowed to. Also many partners will try to clip their wings or fix them to turn these women into ordinary 'cats', but this way they both lose a wonderful opportunity to fly and be special.
The man who made up this story never tried to make his "kitten" 's wings look like anybody else's nor rushed or threatened her to have them fixed, but gently showed her instead how she could fly and be loved WITH vaginismus too and told her not to let anyone tell her any differently...
You too can help your partner realize that she's not freaky, but special, and that she can fly and you can help her express her beautiful potential of woman, but most of all, of human being, and rejoice in watching her fly, full of passion for life, wherever the wind should take her or you can fly with her and be a truly special couple.
That's what we were born to do. To fly and be free to be ourselves and be loved just the way we are.
To shine.
We hope this fairytale will touch your hearts just like it touched the woman's it was directed to, who hasn't stopped flying since...
Batcat and Oswald
One day there was this cat
and it had.....
wings!
and it lived with a bunch of other cats in a house
she was called...
Batcat
That was her name
all the other cats had regular names
and were normal cats
except Batcat, the cat with wings
Now
all the cats were all jolly happy and used to play and have fun
and didn't notice that Batcat was in fact a freak of nature
but
as they got older
and got into clothes and hair and stuff
one of the cats noticed that batcat had wings
and one thing that isnt cool in fairy land
was being a cat with wings!
especially bat wings
so they started to make fun of batcat
so batcat would get really annoyed
since batwings arent so bad
considering that she would look really wierd with sparrow or other wings..
Anyway
they all started to pick on her
and she got annoyed that her parents called her that too
so anyway
she also decided to get her wings pinned
so cats could not see them
and she was scared to leave the house
in case anyone noticed
and she lived in the cellar
where one day
she met.....
a bat!
well, this bat was a real cool dude
his name was Oswald
and he wore glasses
so he says:
"Hey cat how come you dont chase me and eat me and stuff,
most cats always give me grief and try to kill me!!"
So Batcat says:
"I'm not a real cat, I'm a freak and nobody likes me"
Oh, says Oswald: "How come?"
and Batcat says: "Forget about it"
because she didnt want to reveal her wings.
Anyway
Oswald carries on flying around the cellar and Batcat likes the look of all the flying
now...
Batcat is watching the bat having fun catching flies and stuff
and she asks Oswald:
"How do you get to fly ?"
He says: "I dunno, it just comes natural"
And batcat thinks: "maybe I could try to fly.."
Now, by now batcat has been down the cellar for ages
and hasn't been excercising
so she has got quite heavy but anyway,
she says to Oswald: "could you teach me to fly?"
Oswald laughs and says: "Behave you nutcase... cats cant fly!!"
Batcat says: "wanna bet!!?"
so Oswald thinks: "Damn, Batcat has gone nuts being stuck down here,
I better just go along with it otherwise she might flip."
so, Oswald says: "Sure, lets give you some flying lessons"
and Batcat says: "great!"
so, Oswald says: "this won't be easy, you will have to train real hard"
and they get into a full time training regime,
like in the karate kid and stuff
for a whole month, non stop they are working out.
All the time Batcat keeps her wings secret and luckily, Oswald didnt incorporate wing excercises
so Batcat starts getting lighter and lighter
and when Oswald is asleep she begins to unravel her wings!
and they have grown!
lots!
But they are weak
so, she exercises her wings while Oz is asleep.
Next morning, Oswald says: "today is the day, your first flight"
thinking all the time to himself: "God, I hope Batcat snaps out of this, maybe once we go to the top of the building she will get frightened and say, ok, I can't fly, I'm nuts"
so, Batcat says..."yes lets do it!"
Damn, thinks Ozzie...
so they decide to wait for night time to climb to the roof and do the first flight all day Oz is saying:
"hey you dont have to do this, you know?"
but Batcat says: "I'm gonna do it...you'll see"
so, finally night falls and Batcat says: "right let's go"
so, Ozzie says: "oh God, she is nuts, lets go to the top and she will surely freak out and go to bed"
So they get to the top of the building and Batcat says: "right....me first!" and Ozwald says: "hold on, you can't fly!
"Excuse me", says Batcat, "who the hell are you to say that?"
and the get into a fight!
and Oz says: "you are crazy"
and then Batcat says: "Ok Ozzie, I’ve had enough of this, I'm gunna eat you know"
"Whatever", says Ozzie. So, Batcat gets all ready to jump at Oz! does the whole thing, crouches down and shakes her tail and widens her eyes and Oz gets all cocky and says: "you cant fly!!"
"I can!"
and then Batcat spreads her wings
and they are huge and powerful
and Ozzie looks and says: Oh my God!!
and he faints!
and falls off the edge of the building!
Oh no!!
And so Batcat jumps after him!
but she forget she hasnt ever tried her wings!!
and she catches up with Oz who is falling still and shouts:
"Hey...wake up! How do I use these damn things??"
and Oz wakes up and says: "relax!" and she spreads her wings
and they catch the air with a whoosh
and she grabs Ozzie just in time
before he hits the ground
and they fly off together into the mountains ...
Are you still awake ?
:)
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